Why so many men Tongue Tied at the time to talk to girls? It seems that they may be the most eloquent speaker in the group and when there is a girl, they do not know what to say or how to talk.
I think what happens is that people understand that they cannot talk to her like a boy friend. They understood. They know they cannot be rude or vulgar comments. They also fear that will come out as a jerk or ignorant. I mean, we know how we are when we gather with friends, sometimes it is limited to young, immature behavior, but hey we have a lot of fun.
So that's what I think is happening: the boys know they have to reign in his conversation and his behavior with women, but do not know how to do this. I'll give the solution here. It's easier than you might think. I want to remember and imagine a conversation he had with a female relative (eg cousin or sister) or a friend or a cousin or brother or whatever - as long as they are not attracted to them. But the key is to think of how we talk about another woman who does not want to insult and are not at all physically attracted.
This is someone to love and respect and see as a friend. You care about your mind and do not want to insult or treat it as one of the boys, right? Maybe it's the school of your best friend's little sister. She was always very sweet and nice to talk and that was like a child (though I know she grew up in a top model!) Remember what it was like having a conversation with her as a child and will be exactly the way you need to the practice of speaking with a hot girl.
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